The grief and trauma surrounding the loss of a loved one takes a deep toll, and if anything can begin to help the families of fallen heroes, it is the programs of TAPS–Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors.
Founded by force-of-nature Bonnie Carroll in 1994 when she lost her husband in a military plane crash, TAPS provides love and support from mentors and others who have been through similar experiences. From the Good Grief camps to the Tragedy Assistance Hotline to TAPS care packages to regional survival seminars, TAPS provides resources to help families through the toughest times. As one child put it: “therapy can help you…TAPS can love you.”
TAPS has assisted more than 40,000 family members. Unfortunately, an increasingly prevalent and equally as devastating dynamic is death of a military hero by suicide. TAPS programs are there to help any family members who need it, regardless of the circumstances of the death of their loved one.
General (Ret.) Mark and Carol Graham lost both of their sons to military-related deaths. They gave a very moving speech on stage during the TAPS Celebrity Classic evening Friday night, and emotionally told the story of how their sons Jeffrey and Kevin died, and how TAPS helped them through.
If there was one theme consistently present throughout the Celebrity Classic weekend (which also included golf on Saturday at the Air Force Academy Eisenhower course), it was that people wanted to come together to see how they could support TAPS, how they could pay tribute to those who serve our country, and how they could support each other.
Organizers Bo and Lynne Cottrell once again orchestrated a phenominal weekend, with the Friday night classic incorporating a slightly different progam this year. Tony David, Pam Hughes and Kerry Edwards(Wildefire) began the entertainment during the reception, followed by the incredible songs of The Legacy Quartet, poignant and entertaining songs by nationally known artists/writers Brett Jones and Darryl Worley, longtime supporter and great artist Gary Morris and the hilarious comedy of Gary Mule Deer(“I’ve changed my name–I used to be called Elizabeth Mule Deer.”) Then the program culminated with the legendary Michael Martin Murphey singing his popular hits, including “Carolina in the Pines” and of course “Wildfire.”
It was once again a truly memorable evening, and brought home the sentiments that one of the survivor children said: “blood is thicker than water, but TAPS is thicker than blood.”
Steve Taylor, Mitch Rogge, Kathy and Darrel Schmidt and Kay and Norm Huxman–Steve, Mitch and Norm are members of the Legacy Quartet
Volunteers Jewell Hargrave, left, Connie Digiallonardo and Jill Cullis
Former NBA star Rick Barry, left, and Casey Kemp
Maj Gen (Ret.) Mark Graham, left, Carol Graham, Matt Sonka, Kim Sonka and Kevin Sonka
1LT Daniel Considine, left, 1LT Ken Rowe, 1LT Pat Copeland, Alysson Copeland and 1LT William Archbold
“Wildefire” members Tony David, left, Pam Hughes and Kerry Edwards performed during the reception
The Denver Post’s Pat Robinson and Floyd Trujillo
Rick and Aldona Seymore
David and Cheryl Kunovic, left, with Patricia and Randall Taylor of sponsor Taylor Oil Properties
Sponsor and longtime supporter Gordon Burr, left, with Tim Brasel
Matt Kelly, left, Steve Fallin, Kelly Kelly, Pam and Jason Hirsch
From the Coors Cowboy Club: Don Sober, left, and Ron Sober
The Coors Cowboy Club “Chuckwagon Crew” came all the way from Amarillo, TX, once again this year to serve up great fixin’s
Fabricio and Sacha Carballo
From sponsor Greiner Electric: Diane and Lauren Nelson
Event organizer Bo Cottrell, left, with Christine O’Donnell and Jim Manning from the auction team
Nancy Hopper, left, her husband, Blacktie’s Kenton Kuhn, Julie Postlethwait and Doug Stahl
Tory Burchen, in from Arizona, with Andrea Castro and KOA’s Mike Rosen
The Tony David clan: his folks Bob and Mickie David, his sister Carol Avery and his wife Dani David
General Gene Renuart sports some awesome boots
Brian and Charlie Conboy
Gary Roller and Pat Flynn, bandmembers for Michael Martin Murphey
Maj Gen (ret.) Mark Graham, left, Carol Graham and Jill and Gen (ret) Gene Renuart
Jim and Lee Sanders, left, LaFawn Biddle, Kim Oliva and Mason Oliva
Mort and Edie Marks, second and third from left, with their extended family
Michael Martin Murphey with his executive assistant Donna Phillips
Michael Martin Murphey poses with Gayle Novak
Sherri and Buz Koelbel
Jan and Glen Burmeister
Bea and Col (ret.) Jack Wilhite
Selly and John Sieber
Col (ret.) Kent Traylor and his wife, Dr. Carole Traylor
Former Bronco Ron Egloff peruses the silent auction items
Scott Celley, right and the guests from sponsor TriWest Healthcare Alliance
LtGen Mike and Paula Gould from the US Air Force Academy made it possible for the TAPS golf tournament to be held at the AF Eisenhower course
Kay and Bud Isaacs
Bo Vickers, left, Eddie Johnson and Natalie Vickers
Rene Green, left, longtime supporter Jake Jabs, Terri Jabs, Doug and Marla Applegate and Mike Cohen
Bonnie Carroll greets guests at the Wounded Warrior table: Latseen Benson, right, and his wife Jessica
Michael Martin Murphey and Bonnie Carroll
SFC Harold and Jennifer Roxburgh
vent chairs Sue and Eric Sipf
Marines GySgt Anthony Dubuclet, left, Sgt Russell Delaporte, Sgt Russell Boos and Sgt Aaron Stephens
Tom Allee, left, with LTC (ret.) Jim Harrington
ony David, left, and Bo Cottrell joking on stage
Lynne and Bo Cottrell, left, and Bonnie Carroll giving an appreciation award to Tony David
Eddie Johnson gets an appreciation award from his longtime friend (and Lawmen bandmate) Bo Cottrell, as Bonnie Carroll and Tony David look on
Longtime friends Eddie Johnson and Bo Cottrell
Jan and Miles Cortez from presenting sponsor AIMCO clap during the program
Gayle and Ed Novak stand as they are introduced as sponsors and supporters
Tom Tancredo stands as he is introduced
The Legacy Quartet was absolutely awesome
MajGen (ret.) Mark and Carol Graham are joined on stage by Gary Morris
MajGen (ret.) Mark and Carol Graham watch as legendary performer Gary Morris sings an acapella song for them.
Auctioneer Roger Sierens did a great job
Bo and Lynne Cottrell, still busy.
The lyrics to the popular Michael Martin Murphey tune “Wildfire” are inscribed on this guitar, offered up in the live auction
Actor Burton Gilliam talks on stage with Bo Cottrell
Burton Gilliam tells the story of how he got Mel Brooks to sign a “Blazing Saddles” cap, up for auction–Burton was in the 1974 cult classic movie
Walt Rakowich proudly wears his rare “Blazing Saddles” cap, signed by Mel Brooks, that he won in the auction
Popular songwriters Darryl Worley and Brett Jones entertain the crowd
Darryl Worley and Brett Jones on stage
Darryl Worley sings his well-known hit “Have You Forgotten.”
Gary Mule Deer had everyone rolling in the aisles once again this year.
Gary Mule Deer in his deadpan style
Gary Mule Deer is a cross between Johnny Cash and Jerry Seinfeld
Legendary performer Gary Morris performs a few songs
Gary Morris in fine form
Michael Martin Murphey sings his well-known favorites
Michael Martin Murphey on stage with his band
Michael Martin Murphey on stage with Pat Flynn
Michael Martin Murphey talks about why he wanted to help TAPS
Michael Martin Murphey and his band
Michael Martin Murphey and Pat Flynn in their legendary style
Paul & Joan Beninati, Mike & Carol Buchen, Gordon Burr, Christine Burtt, Jason & Tammy Cate, John & Randee Conley, Joe & Gail Coors, Miles & Jan Cortez, Tony & Danielle David, Bill & Debi Hunter Holen, Jake Jabs, Dave & Annette Jewell, Mort & Edie Marks, Ed & Gayle Novak, Gen (Ret.) Gene & Jill Renuart, Pat Robinson, Eric Schierburg, Tom & Jill Tarver, Randall Taylor, Mark & Lee Van Loucks, Brian & Patricia Watson
Entertainment:
Tony David and Wildefire; Legacy Quartet; Gary Mule Deer, Darryl Worley, Brett Jones, Gary Morris, Michael Martin Murphey
Sponsors:
Four Star Title Sponsor: AIMCO; Three Star Sponsor: Tom & Mary Dyk; Premier Sponsors: American Furniture Warehouse, Conley Equipment/Marshall-Rodeno, Gordon & Kaja Burr, Coors Cowboy Club, Greiner Electric, Pete & Marilyn Coors, Taylor Oil Properties, WizBang Solutions; Platinum Sponsors: Steve & Marla Grove, Production Services International, Red Lion Hotel Southeast, Summit Steakhouse--Gayle & Ed Novak; Gold Sponsors: Ashley Furniture, Tony David, The Denver Post, Fishback/Stapleton Foundation, Dave & Anne Gill--Gill Photography LLC, The Lloyd and Eleanor King Foundation, El Pomar Foundation, Lanny & Sharon Martin, MDC Richmond American Homes Foundation, Moody Insurance, Sipf Family Foundation, Team Terry/Beninati, Transwest, TriWest Healthcare Alliance; Silver Supporters: Ameriprise, Paul & Joan Beninati, Colorado Party Rentals, Gordon Close--Elite Sound, Lewan & Associates, McCandless Truck Center, Out of the Box Foundation--Joe & Gail Coors, Mike Rosen, Memorial Hospital Colorado Springs, Royal Flush Industries, Roger Sierens, Jim Manning & Al Train, Al & Mary Watson; TAPS Family & Military Guest Sponsors: Dan Brooke, Mike & Carol Buchen, Dennis Chalus MD, Jack Durliat, John Gay, Robert & Carolyn Gillette, Kaye & Mike Hurtt, Jim McComb, Peter & Loretta Perry, Mary Kathryn & Bob Tri, Larry Mizel--MDC Holdings
Auctioneer:
Roger Sierens
Menu:
Prime rib, baked potato, corn on the cob, banana pudding
Attire:
Casual western
Special Thanks:
Blacktie Colorado, Cresco Restaurant Supply, Cummons Rocky Mountain LLC, Denver Business Center, Enterprise Car Rentals, Enstrom's Candy, Fellowship Community Church, Tomari Frick--Mary Kay Cosmetics, The Frank Family, Goldsmith, House of Flags, Lewan & Associates, Little Caesars, Mariani Family--Costello Banfi, Maureen Schaffer--Coyote Gold Margaritas, McDonald's, Neff Rentals, PROformance Apparel, Rocky Mountain Portable Cooling, Rocky Mountain Power Generation, Rolex USA--John W Ryan, Sheriff Grayson Robinson, Sunstate Equipment, Suss Buick GMC, Waste Management
Event Coordinator:
Bo and Lynne Cottrell
Steering Committee:
TAPS Patriots: Senator David Balmer, Michael Brown, Scott Celley, Bill & Rita Bass Coors, Steve & Marla Grove, BG (Ret.) Steve Ritchie, Mike Rosen, Senator Nancy Todd, Steffan Tubbs